Sex and Passion Tips

Sex is wonderful for a marriage. But this Portland marriage counselor knows that cuddling is what helps couples stay together for a lifetime. Intimate cuddling provides more than sensuality, but also the feelings of, comfort, security and companionship.

Portland Marriage Counselor says Cuddle to Stay Married

Published on July 29, 2011 by Norene Gonsiewski

Sex is wonderful for a marriage. But this Portland marriage counselor knows that cuddling is what helps couples stay together for a lifetime. Intimate cuddling provides more than sensuality, but also the feelings of, comfort, security and companionship. Research shows that cuddling releases the “bonding hormone”, oxytocin.

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Marriage Therapy: Knowing Why Sex Dries Up Can Help

Published on June 17, 2011 by Norene Gonsiewski

Marriage therapy can help you get the love you want by showing you how to improve your sex life. And if you’re like many people in a long-term relationship, that kind of help can’t come soon enough. A report in The Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy found that 54…

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Portland Marriage Counselor on Sexual Desire and Women

Published on November 1, 2010 by Norene Gonsiewski

This Portland marriage counselor hears regularly the sad truth about lagging sexual desire in women. My female clients feel not only guilty that they don’t feel a spark often enough, but they also feel disappointed and cheated.  In an article in Psychology Today explains that while most men have…

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Portland Marriage Counselor says more on: The Loss of Libido

Published on August 13, 2010 by Norene Gonsiewski

I recently came across yet another article about the sexless marriage by Camille Paglia.  As a Portland marriage counselor I am concerned at the rising need for a female Viagra and a culture that is highly sexualized by the media, but actually sex-starved at home.  Although a rather academic…

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Improving your Libido, Part II: What you can do to Increase your Libido

Published on July 6, 2010 by Norene Gonsiewski

Being a marriage counselor in Portland, Oregon, means that I talk to couples and individuals regularly about improving their sexual desire. Sex drive has many contributing factors. Web MD suggests that there are 12 major areas that are “Sex Drive Killers” for women and men:

  • Stress
  • Relationship Problems
  • Alcohol
  • Parenting (privacy problems)
  • Too little…

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