There are some relationship problems that most couples will encounter at some point in their marriage, and nagging is certainly one of the most common. As a Portland marriage counselor, I work with many couples who have trouble communicating because of the resentment, frustration, and annoyance that nagging causes, and…
Marriage Problems: Why Nagging Happens – Part 1
Nagging isn’t always taken as seriously as other marriage problems, but it is a major contributor to conflict and unhappiness in many relationships. It occurs when one partner makes a request repeatedly, such as completing a household repair, while the other partner repeatedly ignores it, leaving both partners annoyed and…
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Relationship Help: Overcome Infidelity with Marriage Education
As a Portland marriage counselor, I know that going through an infidelity is one of the toughest things a relationship can experience. There are deep feelings of betrayal and anger on one end, and on the other, guilt and remorse and fear.
Many couples seek relationship help by going to…
Published in Affairs, Marriage Education
Relationship Advice: Plan for Retirement Together
Heading into retirement can be an exciting time, but one of the best pieces of relationship advice I can give you is to plan for this transition with your partner. As a Portland marriage counselor, I’ve noticed that some couples struggle because they’ve spent several decades with a certain…
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Relationship Issues: How to Discuss Bad Financial News
All relationship issues related to finances can be difficult, particularly if they involve bad news. Whether you’ve lost your job or maxed out the credit card, you may be scared to confess to your partner and even be tempted to handle it on your own, but this is a…
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